Sunday, November 17, 2019
In need of some inspiration Try doing nothing. No, seriously
In need of some inspiration Try doing nothing. No, seriously In need of some inspiration Try doing nothing. No, seriously In the midst of a sea of motivational quotes and a near-constant push for self-improvement, sometimes what you really need to do is just ⦠stop.Like many of us, I really enjoy scrolling through my Instagram. I usually glance at it when Iâm waiting on my bus or want to feel inspired by some beautiful photos of interior design, literature, art, or flowers, or to feel connected to my friends and family. And I love it for that reason.But lately, I think I have been falling into the comparison trap a bit, which is not so good. The idea that I should be handling it all - meditation and wellness, a consistent workout routine, a career, my relationships, keeping up with the never-ending news cycle and pop culture - is sometimes just plain overwhelming.Have you seen the memes about making plans and then being relieved when they fall through? I can so relate to it, as Iâm sure many of you can. Itâs interesting to me because the meme implies that we make those plans even though we don ât truly want to follow through with them and that weâd feel too guilty to cancel them ourselves. The guilt, then, is assuaged when someone else cancels for us. This is a problem.We shouldnât have to feel guilty if we are tired or overstimulated or if we just feel like staying in. Weâre all suffering from information overload, and thereâs a sense that we should feel guilty if weâre not working to better ourselves in some way all of the time.So my proposal is this: that we allow ourselves to feel okay about doing absolutely nothing. If this is hard for you (and itâs hard for me!), donât worry - studies prove that itâs actually really good for you, both mentally and physically.Increased productivityMany companies are catching on to this, but allowing for breaks and flexibility in your workday actually makes you more productive. If you want more proof, the Harvard Business Review cites study after study to explain that allowing yourself to have breaks helps you stay productive. Super busy but feeling that mid-afternoon slump? Go ahead, take a break. It will actually help you to do more, later.Increased creativityIn addition to productivity, if you allow yourself to have downtime, your creativity increases as well. According to Inc., when your mind is relaxed - when youâre enjoying downtime - a different part of your brain is engaged. And this part of the brain is connected to problem-solving. So if youâre feeling uninspired or stuck, it might help to go and take a walk, a nap, or pick up your phone at the bus stop and laugh at Instagram stories.Increased energyKnow that time of day where you just feel drained? Maybe itâs the mid-afternoon and you feel like youâve crashed? Yeah, me too. Allowing yourself to stop will help this. Forget powering through; instead, take a break!Grab a coworker and go walk around the block. Run down the street to the smoothie place and treat yourself. Lay your head down on your desk and take a five-minute m editation. All of these things will help you to feel a little more energy than you did before.Increased focusIf youâre worried about wasting time, donât. Itâs wrong to associate downtime with time wasting. Instead, it actually helps your brain process new information and solve problems. Letting your brain step away from whatever it is youâre focusing on often helps you think of a new solution or perspective. When youâre stuck or fading, itâs good to take a break to daydream or think of something other than the project at hand.Increased memoryFinally, downtime is also proven to help memory. Unsurprisingly, allowing yourself time to process what youâre learning helps you remember it more clearly. If you feel like youâre constantly forgetting things, maybe your age isnât to blame. Instead, it might be that your mind is overloaded with information and in need of a break. If you allow yourself to slow down a bit and enjoy some time to daydream, chances are, your memory will improve as well.If youâre feeling burned out from the business of it all, shake off the guilt and indulge in some downtime. Treat yourself (itâs proven to help) and you should feel better almost instantly.This article first appeared on Career Contessa.
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